see it is all good Rob. I haven't access to your inner most thoughts and desires (yet) and my reputation remains easily tarnished.
Even I figured there must have been a broken book scandal that sounds just like the sort of hijinks I get involved in.
Not wanting to disagree with Xisor but I don't think a visible to members DL is a good idea because I'd inevitably read stuff and feel like engaging and that'll undermine my stance of objecting to it existing and never taking part in it which is easily done when it is opt in only.